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Solving the Relationship Puzzle

Tom Merrill, Ph.D., ABPP, and Bobbie Sandoz Merrill MSW, are married and veterans of the relationship puzzle. Tom, a clinical psychologist, and Bobbie, a therapist and parenting specialist, bring their personal and clinical experiences to this column.

The Far Reaching Effects of Flirtation

Dear Tom and Bobbie,
My husband thinks I'm a flirt and doesn't trust me to go out with men from the office for business lunches. I have always enjoyed "harmless" flirtations, but he hasn't felt they were as meaningless as I have assumed them to be. More recently he has started flirting to make his point, and I must confess I don't like it. Now I'm beginning to wonder if flirting is really as okay as most people seem to think or if we're both being overly sensitive and jealous.
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