Thomas Merrill, Ph.D. & Bobbie Sandoz Merrill, MSW Settle for More
TESTIMONIAL

"This book is a must-read for everyone who is married, divorced, or contemplating marriage, as well as for professional marriage counselors who want to greatly improve their skills."
?Nicholas A. Cummings, Ph.D., Sc.D., Distinguished Professor, University of Nevada, Reno; President Cummings Foundation for Behavioral Health; & former President, American Psychological Association


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Our Mission

Settle for More:

What it Means—to Your Personal and
Professional Life, Your Children’s Education,
and to Our Communities and World


Because we believe that being kind and caring in all of our relationships— starting with our primary partners in our own living rooms on a daily, moment-to-moment basis for the remainder of our lives—lies at the core of our ability to rapidly become the people we most want to be in a world we most want to inhabit, our goal is to inspire and teach others, first, to understand and then believe this is possible—and finally to learn how to mindfully and consistently achieve it.

We also believe that once we have learned to raise the bar on our own behavior and “settle for more” at all times in our interactions with our partners, that we can more easily expand this way of being in all of our relationships—with our children, our peers, our colleagues, our communities and our world.

And finally, we believe that once it occurs to us to mindfully BE loving at all times, starting in our own lives and living rooms, that it’s easier to BEHAVE in a manner that reflects our higher selves than we thought possible. Moreover, the result of doing this not only impacts our own lives in a more powerful way than we could have imagined, but ripples out to impact the lives of others who know us—as well as those who don’t—in a far-reaching and magical manner.

SOLVING OUR PERSONAL AND NATIONAL RELATIONSHIP CRISES

To teach this to others, we have developed a model that we share through a variety of venues, including our partnering book, Settle for More, You Can Have the Relationship You Always Wanted … Guaranteed! and our parenting book, Parachutes for Parents, Raising Loved and Loving Children for a Joyful World as well as our “Settle for More” series and other books. We also offer Partnering and Parenting Seminars, Classes, and Private Consultations as well as School and Corporate Consultations.





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